Can't deal with women? Stay away from them!!
by Brother of Darkness
Almost a year ago, i wrote on this website a major statement: i will never marry again and i have chosen celibacy instead of dealing with the fruitless game of remarrying and trying again and again and again.
First, thank you to the editor,who has allowed me to continue to write about a topic that the majority of my fellow Muslims has cursed or shunned me for...and I will not be silenced and I refuse to fade or cower in the face of our own chosen ignorance's.
NOW, LET ME SAY THIS LOUD AND CLEAR TO THOSE WHO 'SLAPPED ME DOWN" IN THE PAST:THE TRUE WAY FOR ANY MUSLIM IS TO MARRY...HOWEVER,I AM WRITING ON BEHALF OF THOSE, LIKE MYSELF, WHO SHOULD GIVE UP WHILE THEY ARE BEHIND, STOP FOOLING AROUND WITH INTERNET WIFE SITES, STOP GIVING IN TO THE BROTHERS WHO ONLY INTRODUCE YOU TO UNSUITABLE WOMEN, AND MOST OF ALL, SHOULD CONCENTRATE ON SERVING ALLAH IN DIFFERENT WAYS IF THE MARRIAGE FACTOR IS JUST TOO MUCH TO HOLD ON TO!!!
Here are the 'cardboard' words I hear when others hear that I have given up on marriage,women, and children:
#1:"There's other fish in the sea, find another women to marry"
Response:In today's world, the 'sea' of women has become so disgusting ,toxic, and corrupt that the traditional 'man is always is guilty' standard is now,truthfully, reversed on women;if you do not believe me, take a survey spin around the dozens of Muslim matrimonial sites out there...all a man is going to find is lies, deception, and if he REALLY wants to have it....TROUBLE TO LAST A LIFETIME!!!
I should know...been divorced for 13 years and I am still paying for a foreign Muslimah who fooled me just to escape her country and even went as far as to have a child and to turn around and commit adultery with a smile on her face....while still wearing a hijab...and with other Muslimahs cheering her on to commit the act so she could have her revenge.
Because of these things,don't be surprised that more and more Muslim men,who hang on to their iman like a hot brick in their hands, boldly turn to the whole of womanhood and say:'i am DONE with women,I am done with marriage, I am done with children, I hate the physical trap for fools called sex,which after these types of experiences goes from a good thing to being a disgusting, useless, and unwanted part of life.
"2:"Brother,you can't be picky about where a woman been before"
Response:yes i can, and there are times when my guard does slip,when i think that MAYBE the sister who might might be good for me.....then the thought of her knowing other men before me slams the door shut and i turn away.To put it bluntly, a good muslim man, in regards to women, should not 'take the road that other men have been on before'....the thought of 'how many others before me' make me shudder and definitely ran away, with good reason.
So, do not respond to this with 'you're a bad brother' or 'you need help' or other typical society responses because I have heard it all...and most of those who will read this need a good shaking and wake up call.
That is why I am celibate, Muslim, and why, without a doubt, marriage and women are to avoided like life depends on it....because sometimes it does, and i will never tell you what you want to hear..i will only tell you the truth, Inshaallah.
May Allah bless and keep the 10% of truly blessed marriages in the world intact....because the other 90% are doomed to become the unaware persons' mess.