Muslim Marriage Quotes on Sex

1 – God’s Messenger (PBUH) is reported to said:
“In the sexual act of each of you there is a sadaqa (charity).” The Companions asked: `Messenger of God! When one of us fulfils his sexual desire, will he be given a reward for that?’ And he said, `Do you not think that were he to act upon it unlawfully, he would be sinning? Likewise, if he acts upon it lawfully he will be rewarded.’
(Wedding Quotes from Muslim)
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According to another reported hadith:
“Three things are counted inadequacies in a man. Firstly, meeting someone he would like to get to know, and taking leave of him before learning his name and his family. Secondly, rebuffing the generosity that another shows to him. And thirdly, going to his wife and having intercourse with her before talking to her and gaining her intimacy, satisfying his need from her before she has satisfied her need from him.’
( Marriage Quotations from Daylami)

3- Sa’id ibn al-Musayyib (RA) is said to report Blessed Prophet’s opinion of a loving sexual relationship as follows:
“When a Muslim man intends to come to his wife, God writes for him 20 good deeds and erases from him 20 evil deeds. When he takes her by the hand, God writes for him 40 good deeds and erases from him 40 evil deeds. When he kisses her, God writes for him 60 good deeds and erases from him 60 evil deeds. When he comes into her, God writes for him 120 good deeds. When he stands up to make the ablution, God boasts of him to the angels and says: “Look at My servant!
He stands up on a cold night to wash himself of impurity (janaba) seeking the good pleasure of his Lord. I bear witness to you that I have forgiven him his sins”.’
( Wedding Quotation from Maybudi, Tafsir 1, 610)
Please note that the writing of deeds here is just symbolic to illustrate importance of sexual act between wife and husband. It should not be taken literally.
4- The Prophet (s) is reported to say on one occasion:
“Whenever any one of you comes across some attractive woman, and his heart is inclined towards her, he should go to his wife and have sexual intercourse with her, so that he might keep himself away from evil thoughts.”
( Marriage Quotes from Muslim)

8- In another Hadith the last Prophet is reported as:
“Not one of you should fall upon his wife like an animal; but let there first be a messenger between you.’ `And what is that messenger?’ they asked, and he replied: `Kisses and words.”
( Marriage Quotes from Daylami)
9- Abu Sa’id al-Khudri (Allah he pleased with him) reported that:Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upoin him) said: “The most wicked amongst the people in the eye of Allah on the Day of judgment is the men who goes to his wife and she comes to him, and then he divulges her secret. “
( Marriage Quotes from Muslim, Book 8, Number 3369)

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